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This kid turned 9 last week.
And FYI, his hat is just like the one his nemesis, Ace, was wearing the day they got in a fight. Let that be a lesson in jealousy, when someone (John) makes fun of your hat it is probably because he likes it. |
This kid is not easy.
I have described him as rigid, explosive, and intense a lot lately. I realize that complaining about my favorite son can get boring and repetative so today I choose to focus on something else about him-- his irritatingly picky palate.
He has had issues with foods and textures forever. Now it's unbearable. It has become the mother of all power struggles.
Every night the conversation goes like this:
"What's for dinner?"
"X."
"I hate X! Why can't you make anything that actually tastes good for once?"
"You can go to your room."
"Fine, but I'm not eating any of that nasty glop you call dinner!"
Unless X = Pancakes, cereal, grilled cheese, quesadillas, or meatballs.
I've tried everything from letting him starve to letting him have cereal every night. It has reached critical mass.
Here's the thing though. I think I know the solution. We need to eat at the table more often. I grew up eating at the table and remember being shocked when a friend of mine never ate with her family. Now here I am being that mom who finds it easier to feed my kids at their stools. My justification is this: Jared. He has either worked nights or, like now, he doesn't get home until around 8 pm. Then when he is home he doesn't like to sit at the table because of his ultra-sonic mouth noise radar. Dumb, right? Plus when my kids were younger it was easier to feed them what they liked first and then make dinner for Jared and myself later.
Anyway, my new goal is to eat at the table as much as possible, regardless of Jared's presence. It is going to require some planning and preparation, but we will see if John is more willing to try new (healthy) options at dinner.
Be honest, do you eat at the table most nights? How do you make it work?